21 Lessons for a Life Worth Living
- Mariam Haddad
- Mar 31
- 3 min read
By Mariam Haddad, Chief Amplifier | The Performance Communication Company
Turning 21 again caused me to reflect on 21 things I have learned—truths forged in the fire of experience, growth, and relentless pursuit of purpose. Perhaps they bring value to your life, your day, and your community.
1. Be Kind.
Everyone carries something unseen inside them. A kind word, a compassionate glance—it matters more than you know.
2. Let Your Why Be Love.
Love is the simplest formulation of kindness in action. If all else fails, let love lead.
3. Find Joy in the Moments in Front of You.
Being present takes a lifetime of learning. Stop, feel, allow, and accept—there is a feast in front of you, waiting to be savored.
4. Clear Your Sight.
Learn to see more clearly every day—yourself, others, the truth beyond the surface.
5. Hope Matters.
Without it, life flatlines. As Viktor Frankl, a psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor, said: "No one can take your attitude from you." That leaves us with a choice.
6. Know What’s in Your Control.
Healthy boundaries matter—for sanity, wellness, balance, and fruitfulness. Take responsibility for what is truly yours.
7. Be Adaptive.
Life doesn’t move in a straight line. Expect the twists and turns and meet them with a sense of adventure.
8. Don’t Stuff Your Feelings Down.
Suppressing emotions leads to numbness. And you matter—to yourself first.
9. Be Who You Are.
Dig deep until you strike the gold that is you.
10. Persevere.
Be the little train that could. Keep moving. Keep believing.
11. Stay Planted.
Creativity is a beautiful distraction, but fruitfulness comes from owning and watering what is already there.
12. Say Yes.
Nun Gavrilia, an extraordinary woman, lived by this: "If you really trust God, you won’t go anywhere that isn’t actually good for you." I’m learning to say yes with trust and a sense of adventure.
13. Awe Matters.
Look through the eyes of a child—the world will transform.
14. Resilience Is an Active Process.
Healing is not passive—opting into growth and rising is the hardest, bravest choice you will ever make.
15. There Is Music Everywhere.
Listen. It will find you.
16. Dance as Though No One Is Watching.
Seriously—your spirit will rise and life will flow with joy and fun.
17. Laugh at Yourself.
Life gets lighter when you take yourself less seriously.
18. Forgive.
A better life is waiting on the other side of letting go.
19. Do the Little Bit.
Game-changer! Tiny actions. Massive impact.
20. Don’t Press and Don’t Stress.
Game-changer 2.0. Let the story that is meant to rise emerge—not your ego.
21. Practice Makes Great Progress.
Perfection is a lie. Practice imperfectly, be messy, and watch artistry unfold.
A Life Worth Living
This is written from my phone and heart, with deep gratitude for every heart and mind that has painted on the canvas of my being.
We are all co-authors of the masterpiece that is life. And for that, I am grateful.
With Joy,
Mariam Haddad Chief Amplifier | The Performance Communication Company
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